Let’s be honest, we all make mistakes, even dating mistakes and the year is almost over. So, there’s a chance that you may just try and glide your way into the new year without taking any action on improving your hooking up success. I respect that you want to chill the rest of 2015 because it’s been a long year. That being said, if you want to succeed at dating online in 2016 you’ve got to make sure you don’t make these mistakes…
Full disclosure, I somewhat got the idea to write this article after reading the Huffington Post and seeing some of the mistakes that I preach about to my readers via email and on my site. I felt obligated to do so!
Mistakes Not To Make in 2016 For Dating Success!
Waiting Way Too Damn Long
If you’re a procrastinator and you put off dates days or even a week you better cut that shit out right this minute! Pay attention because this is one of the biggest dating mistakes I know! Yes, dating websites were created to make it easier for you to connect with a potential partner but that doesn’t mean you should spend days on end communicating virtually with someone you want to bang. The idea is that you connect with a like-minded individual that has similar wants and needs i.e. they want to have sex and just meet up with them. Don’t wait too long to physically connect with someone. You’re missing the boat on some major hook up opportunities if so. Rule of thumb is to meet up with someone you connect with online within the first 48 hours.
Not Knowing How To Flirt
If you’re one of these people that just plain and simple suck at flirting you better put some quality time and effort in boosting your flirt game! Remember when you were 18? If you were anything like me, you were fearless and gave zero fucks about being shot down. So you flirted and flirted and flirted some more with tons of girls until you snagged one that wanted to bang. Yes, the girls are a bit smarter today and you’ve got to be on your A-game if you want to be successful. Learn it or lose.
Not Using It On The Go
It’s going to be 2016. If you’re not using your smartphone to try and hookup then you better start doing so. Given that most of the casual dating apps are geo-based, they help you connect on the go with others and that’s actuallly the best time to connect, when you’re out and about! Take the time to prepare and download your go to app (click here to see mine). Go to a local crowded location and start using the app. See how many people around you are doing the same. Connect with them and get yourself laid for gosh sakes!
Well, those are the three dating mistakes that you need to avoid in 2016 if you want to be successful when it comes to online dating next year! If you want to get a head start, I’d even suggest trying to fix these mistakes now and you may find yourself getting laid this holiday a few more times than you thought!