Ryan Malone, Author at SexDatingApps.com

About Ryan Malone

Ryan Malone is a serial dater who enjoys casual flings. He created this website for all the cocksman out there looking for the best ways to find casual encounters in all the weirdest places. You can follow him on Twitter and sometimes find him posting videos with opinions on dating sites on YouTube.

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Backpagepro Review: Another Fake Copycat!

Well, I know you’re probably sick of hearing me talk about all these Backpage alternative sites, but I will not stop until I’ve uncovered all the scumbag sites out there. Speaking of which, I just found another site that’s riddled with nonsense and fake listings for escorts. It’s called Backpagepro and I’m here today to share my findings.

Look, I’m going to be straight up with you here and say that I absolutely hate these fake escort sites and any sites taking advantage of consumers looking to hookup. So many of them are complete garbage and trash in my opinion. You’ll get a better idea of what I’m talking about if you just keep reading this review. I’ve literally covered it all!

My Backpagepro.com Review

If you take a look at Backpagepro you’re likely to think that you’re using the original Backpage site. That’s exactly what they want you to think and most people fall for this nonsense…

NOT ME!

I know what to look for and how to pinpoint the shady escort listings. I’ll tell you right now, this one is shady AF. You’ll hear people referring to this as Backpagespro, Backpage Pro or even Backpage Plus. It’s all the same thing that they’re talking about and something that you should probably just ignore altogether. I’ll start with the terms…

The Site Terms

I hate, hate, hate it when I visit some Backpage escort site and there are terms that state that consumers are not allowed to post anything related to solicitation directly or indirectly for illegal services e.g. exchanging sexual services and favors for some money. This pisses me off beyond belief because this website is literally meant to help people find hookers to hire for sex. One of my biggest pet peeves which is why I decided to mention it here first thing.

The Disclaimer

When you decide to navigate to a specific city, you end up eventually being pushed in front of this stupid disclaimer. It’s basically a legal liability waiver for the individuals operating Backpagepro.com so that they don’t end up in jail because of your stupidity and not knowing local laws.

I decided to agree to the terms and proceed forward. Doing so led me to a page which states that there are two types of ads. The company ads and personal ads are the two types. I had never seen this before so I checked both sections out starting with the company ads.

The Company Ads

If you click on the Company Ads, you’ll notice that there are literally no results populating on this page. This is insane if you ask me. You’re running a classified site and not a single company has published anything at all on the site? Well, that screams fake as hell to me and only reiterates the fact that this site is fake.

The Personal Ads

I dove into the personal ads section via web and it was a complete bust. In fact, it didn’t even work so I went to search even further and learned that they do have ads but they’re pretty crappy. I’ve provided an example of one of the ads below. You’ll notice that they are not verified and that the girl doesn’t even look like she’s from the local area. It’s a bit too shady for me to be honest.

I took a closer look and the address listed within the personal ad was the same address as a local massage parlor. What does this tell me? Well, it tells me that this is a load of crap and nothing but either fake dating profiles, fake escort profiles, or massage girls trying to rope guys in for money. You know, the kind you find on the rubmaps.com site. In which case, you’re going to end up in BIG trouble when you find out that you’ve been Robert Krafted and pinched for solicitation.

The Bottom Line

Look, the bottom line here is quite simple. Do not waste your time using Backpagepro. It’s not going to get you laid and you’re not going to solve anything by doing so. In fact, I can almost guarantee that you’ll either be scammed or get arrested if you use this site. You’ve been warned, my friend!

Curious to know what actually works? Well, there are lots of sites out there that cater to horny people such as yourself. I personally prefer using dating apps that lead to sex – nothing else.

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Amigos.com Review: The Latino & Hispanic Personals Site

Given that I’m based out of Miami, FL it should come as no surprise that I like Hispanic and Latin women. The local strip clubs here are loaded with them as are the bars and classified ads. However, I typically don’t roll like that. Instead, I choose to use a dating app. One of those apps is Amigos.com. It’s a network connected to the AdultFriendFinder.com network (so you know it’s a winner). Before making a choice to join this site, you’ll want to read my full review. I’ve covered it all below…

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My Amigos.com Review Tells It All

Do you like Hispanic women? Or, are you Hispanic yourself and find it tough to find someone who “gets” you and all the things you grew up with, experienced, and are specific to your nationality? If you are looking for a Hispanic date for any reason, there are a multitude of dating sites geared towards Hispanic dating and the people who love a little spicy Latino blood.

One of the recent sites I’ve stumbled across is called Amigos.com. More than a dating site, Amigos.com leans towards being an amazing social media site that helps to connect Latino’s looking for love and anyone else that enjoys a bit of sexy Latin flair in their life.

If you’re looking to date anyone of Hispanic descent, you need to read my thoughts on Amigos.com to see if it’s worth your time and money, or one you should avoid.

Amigos.com Features

Huge number of members and a lively community-7.9 million and counting
Browsing available in English, Spanish, or Portuguese
Instant messaging, video introductions, chat rooms, and a smartphone app
Member blogs, articles, and forums
Free to join and relatively affordable to upgrade membership

Joining The Site

If you are interested in joining Amigos.com, you’ll be happy to know it is completely free to join. Now, that doesn’t mean it’s completely free to use all the site features, but if you’re looking to try out the site and see what it’s about, it won’t cost you a cent.

Besides being free to join, Amigos.com makes it easy to become a member. There are no extensive questions to answer, just a few basics and you’ll have to click on a confirmation email, but once you’ve done that, you’re set.

Once you’ve poked around a bit, you’ll probably notice all the benefits that paid members get. These things include:

Bling manager to decorate your profile and make it stand out
Profile-connected blog entries to act like a daily diary or a way to post about exciting things happening in your life
Contact new members
Access to blogs, groups, and magazine articles
Appear top in the searches
Access to larger photos
More extensive search options

And that is just the tip of the iceberg. Paid members on Amigos really get some bang-up benefits that go beyond the freebies such as basic searching and limited contact with other members.

Upgraded Membership Costs

If you’ve been playing around a little bit on the site and you’ve liked what you saw, you probably want to consider a paid membership. If you’re curious as to what it will cost you, let me fill you in on the various membership levels.

Silver Membership:

1-month-$9.99
3-months-$26.85 ($8.95/month)

Gold Membership:

1-month-$19.99
3-months-$35.80 plus a 4^th month free

Enhance your profile:

1-month-$19.95
3-months-$35.90

Highlight to stand out in search results

1-month-$9.95
3-months-$26.85

Now, if you don’t want to purchase membership upgrades by the month, the site also offers its members the ability to buy points. The points system is different from the monthly memberships because you’re not locked in. You use the points as you go for doing various things on the site.

This may get a little expensive because everything you do on Amigos.com will be assigned a number of points. For example, if you want to send an email to another member, it will cost you 200 points per email, if you want your profile highlighted so others see it first in searches it will be 1000 points per month, and if you want to create a private chatroom it is another 1000 points per month.

Here is the point pricing breakdown and you can decide if that is something that will work for you, or if a monthly membership is more your speed:

5000 points-$40.00
4000 points-$34.00
3000 points-$27.00
2000 points-$19.00
1000 points-$10.00

It is possible to earn points by doing things on the site, like publishing your own blog or writing an article for Amigos Magazine, which can then bump up your membership to Silver for free. If you’re the type that enjoys writing, you can really get to enjoy Amigos.com with very little cash out of pocket, which is pretty nice.

The Magazine

Amigos.com offers up something really unique for a dating site and is something I never really stumbled across before. Amigos Magazine is an online magazine full of user stories, jokes, life experiences, and just about anything else that a member of Amigos.com might want to right about. Not only can you read these articles, but you can then vote on how much you enjoyed them.

And, if you’re interested, you can even send off an article or joke to the magazine and earn points towards your membership. Amigos Magazine is completely free and allows members to get to know each other and build up that sense of family that the Latino community is known for.

Excellent Safety Features

When I use any dating site, I want to be sure it is safe. There are so many bad dating sites out there that you never know if you’re really talking to the person behind the profile, or if it is someone looking to catfish you.

This network offers consumers a Confirm ID feature where they verify member identities using an ID, driver’s license, or passport and put a “Trusted Member” logo on that person’s profile. Any profile that sports that logo has been verified to be the person behind the pictures and not some creepy dude pretending to be a hot Latina woman.

Final Verdict on Amigos.com

I like Amigos.com. I’ve tried other Latino dating sites (Caliente.com) and I’ve come across some good ones and some really bad ones, but I’d say that Amigos.com is one of the best. They offer extensive features, great bonuses like their chatrooms and magazine, various ways to pay, and a top-notch safety feature that only the best dating sites use.

If you’re at all curious as to what Amigos.com is about, you really have nothing to lose but a few bucks if you’re not thrilled with their services. I know I’ve had success and will continue to use Amigos.com when I’m feeling a little Caliente.

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Adult Hookup Review: A Solid Choice For Legit Hookups

I’ve been in this “hookup” game for years man – YEARS! If you’re planning on spending your time on useless escort sites and shady pimp directories versus a legit dating site, then you’ve got what’s coming to you. However, if you’re looking to do things the right way, then I just might be able to help you out. See, I recently came across a site called Adult Hookup and trust me there’s a way to hookup on this network. I’ll share what I know about this gem right here now…

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My Adult Hookup Experience (and Investigation)

Are you looking for a hookup? Maybe it’s been a while since you’ve gotten busy, or maybe you’re someone who likes to add in new dating sites to your repertoire. Whatever your deal is, there is a site out there that I would recommend you check out.

Adulthookup.com is an adult dating site looking to connect casual daters with whatever it is they want. If you’re looking for a straight relationship, gay, multiples aka swingers, whatever, you can find it on Adult Hookup. And, it’s easy and isn’t that what we all want from a dating site?

If you’re thinking of joining, give this review a quick read, I’ll fill you in on all the important stuff so you can decide if this is the right site for you.

Joining Adulthookup.com

Have you tried joining other dating sites and the process was so long and drawn out that you ended up more frustrated than when you started? Some of the dating sites out there ask you so many questions you’d think you were signing your soul or first-born over.

Aduthookup.com does ask you a few questions, but they are very basic. Essentially you need to put in your gender, what gender you’re looking for, what type of person you’d like (college girl, cougar, etc.), the body type you like (thin, curvy, more to love, doesn’t matter), and an email address and user name. Seriously, within a minute I was a member of Adult Hookup.

Joining this network is completely free. They do require that you enter a credit card number to verify that you’re who you say you are, just an FYI if that bothers you. Now, make sure you read their sign in page carefully before you enter that number.

Adulthookup.com does not charge you to be a member. What they will do is allow you one day of a free upgrade to see the features that they offer and after that 24 hours, they will charge you monthly if you do not cancel. As long as you remember to cancel within that first day, it won’t cost you the $29.95 monthly charge.

However, joining for free and actually getting to do stuff as a free member are totally different things. Free members get basically free access, which includes free searches and looking at profiles and that’s it. If you want the good stuff, you’re going to have to pay.

But, isn’t that the way it always is in life?

Paid Features Of The Site

Since you don’t get much as a free member, you probably want to know what you get as a paid member. Adulthookup.com only offers pay structure and that’s a $29.95 membership fee. As a paid member you get full access to the site and everything it has to offer, which includes:

Webcam chatting-Sort of like sexy Skyping, if you will.
Nude photos-Because, isn’t that what this is pretty much all about?
Virtual gifts-Kind of corny, but a fun way to keep people engaged and hey, you’re not putting out any real money.
IM chatting-If you like social media-esque communication, you’ve got it on Adulthookup.com.
Friend list-That way you can keep tabs on the people you’ve connected with and find out what they’re up to if you haven’t talked in a while.

And that is really just the tip of the iceberg with this. With over 60 million members worldwide, you can find matches that are local that meet your requirements

Searching on Adulthookup.com includes:

Man
Woman
Gay
Couple
Age range
Sexual preferences
Distance from you
City they live in

Oh, and guess what? Adulthookup.com offers its members a 100-day guarantee. If you are a paid member and you don’t get a hookup within the first 100 days and you meet other requirements (like you actually have had to try to get a hookup, not just sit on the computer mouth breathing at nudes), you’ll receive a free 3-month VIP membership. You really have nothing to lose by joining Adulthookup.com if you ask me.

Some FAQ’s

Does Adulthookup.com have real women? I’m not looking to be catfished.

I can only tell you about my experience and the other reviews I’ve read on Adulthookup.com. From what I’ve experienced, the women I talked to were, in fact, women (trust me, I know all about getting catfished and kittenfishing). We had met up and had some dates and trust me, they were all woman. I do assume that there are going to be some fake profiles on Adulthookup.com just like every other dating site out there, it’s just too hard to completely patrol that.

Am I going to pay the monthly fee and then get dicked on paying for extras?

Nope. There are no hidden fees on Adulthookup.com. When you pay the $29.95 a month, that gives you VIP access to everything, there are no extras or secret fees.

Do I need to make a profile? I hate doing that.

Would you contact someone that had no profile up but some basic information? Ok, you’re a guy, so you probably would. Imagine if you were a woman, would contact a complete stranger who couldn’t take the time to fill out even a small amount about themselves? Doesn’t it seem like they either don’t care or they may be a fake?

Listen, I know it takes time to create these profiles, but I promise you, if you take a few minutes to put down some interesting things about yourself, you’re going to have better success.

Can I post dirty pictures? Or is it censored?

The site isn’t censored and yes, you can post completely nude pictures. Your profile will have those listed as private and only the people you want to see them will have access to them, which is a great way to keep things safe and private. So, go ahead and prop that thing up beside a beer can or remote control and have a blast!

I’m kidding, don’t do that. Women do not want to see your junk slapped up against various household objects. Trust me.

Conclusion

I’ve been on some really great dating sites and some really bad ones. If you’re looking to join an adult dating site, Adulthookup.com is one of the good guys. If you want to give it a try, you can poke around for free and once you’ve decided if it’s for you, their monthly flat fee is pretty affordable.

I would recommend Adulthookup.com if you’re looking for an adult hookup of any type. Now, if you’re looking for a free dating hookup network, then I’ve got you covered too.

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Remaining Friends After Having Sex

Having a bang buddy is awesome. You both understand what you’re doing and that it isn’t a relationship. Often, this buddy isn’t a friend-friend, but more of someone you’ve met elsewhere and become “bedroom besties” with no other connection outside of getting busy.

But, what if you want to have sex with a friend? Like, someone, you’ve known awhile. Like someone, you hang out with.

Can it be done without ruining the friendship?

Well, I’m here to tell you that it can…if you do things correctly. There are definitely rules you both need to follow to keep the sex part of the relationship completely separate from the friend part of the relationship.

Does that sound kind of difficult?

It should because it is.

Look, I’m not saying it’s completely impossible because there are people out there that have had successful friends-with-benefits relationships. Hell, I’ve even had a few. But, I’ve also had some friendships that were completely and totally destroyed because we got together sexually, and it sucked big time.

If you are considering having sex with someone you consider a friend, make sure you understand the rules of staying friends after having sex. If you don’t know them, let me fill you in.

6 Rules for Staying Friends After Having Sex

This is a quick and dirty list of rules that I abide by when it comes to hooking up with friends.

Rule #1: Join a casual dating site and look for someone else first.

Ok, I know that doesn’t help you if you’re planning on hooking up with a buddy but hear me out. If you are sexually frustrated, find someone else to have sex with first. Make it a someone you don’t care about, don’t hang out with, and sure don’t share any friends with.

People on casual dating and hookup sites are looking to do just that, hookup. They don’t know you, don’t have any time invested in you, and really just want to get laid and move on. There will be no awkwardness, it’s a fuck and go (on your way).

If you have sex with a friend, lines are being crossed and things are getting weird, which is what you don’t want. However, if you are still convinced that you and your friend should get busy, keep reading the rest of the rules for staying friends after having sex.

Rule #2: Make sure you discuss what you both want out of this.

If you and your friend are hell-bent on having sex with each other, you need to communicate. Communication is the only way you can both ensure that the other person understands what you’re looking for, what you don’t want, and what the whole situation will be defined as.

Really listen carefully to what they’re saying to you. If it even sounds remotely like they could lean towards relationship stuff and that isn’t what you want, do not have sex with them. One or both of you are going to end up hurt and the friendship probably won’t survive.

Rule #3: Don’t be weird about things.

Having sex with a friend does not make you the owner of said friend, the partner of said friend, and you certainly do not have the right to treat that friend in any way other than a friend. The best way to keep things going well is to act like you two haven’t had sex and are still just the same two people you were before you saw each other naked.

If either of you starts getting clingy, obnoxious, or relationship-y, your friendship is surely going to be sliding down the tubes before you know it. Be cool and things will work out.

Rule #4: Keep your mouth shut.

Chances are, you and your new fuck friend share other friends in common. You’re probably part of a bigger friend group that hangs out, does stuff together, and enjoys being together.

How do you think it will go if you tell someone else in that friend group that you and “Tricia” have been playing hide the salami? I can almost guarantee that it isn’t going to go well. Not only are you going to piss off your new bed-buddy (not to be confused with bedpage buddies who you have to pay), but you’re also probably going to start some major drama amongst the group.

The best thing you can do is keep what the two of you are doing a secret and not fill anyone else in on it.

Rule #5: Keep the communication open.

Once you and your friend have begun a friends-with-benefits situation, it is important that you both keep the communication open. Things will usually be hot and heavy in the start, but as you’ve been going at it for a while, your friend may have a change of heart or want to start dating other people and stop seeing you. Or, maybe they’ve just had enough.

No matter what the situation, you need to be able to keep the lines of communication open and realize that what you’re doing probably won’t last forever. If either of you wants to call it quits, it’s totally fair to do so and the other person should be accepting of that.

Rule #6: Don’t mess around with other friends.

Do not, and I repeat, DO NOT move from friend to friend to friend to have sex with. If you start having sex with every friend in your circle, you’re going to get the boot eventually. If you absolutely must have sex with a friend, pick one person and keep it at that.

I mean, think about it. If you have sex with “Tricia” and move on to “Becky” and then “Allison”, what if each finds out? Do you really want them to start comparing notes about you and your skills and your, ahem, mini-me? Or, do you want them getting so mad that they’re telling everyone what you did?

Trust me, avoid having sex with multiple friends, it will lead to nothing but a headache.

Conclusion

Having a friends-with-benefits is amazing if it is done right. If you follow my six rules for staying friends after having sex, you’re sure to enjoy yourself and keep the friend. While it isn’t impossible, it can be tricky, so just put in the work, keep things quiet, don’t get weird, and enjoy the ride for as long as you can.

Now, if you’re smart, you won’t try to hook up with any friends at all. Instead, you’ll give one of the many free hookup sites out there a shot and take a stab at some new booty.

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FreeLifetimeFuckFriends Review Reveals All

I don’t know why these “Free Lifetime” sex sites are so abundant, or why people keep falling for them. But, apparently, these types of sites are popular because they keep popping up. Unfortunately, I don’t have much nice to say about any of these types of sites, including FreeLifetimeFuckFriends.com.

There may be people out there that had success using the site. If you find them, can you point them in my direction, because I don’t believe anyone has ever met another real human while attempting to date on FreeLifetimeFuckFriends?

How do I know they’re a fraudulent site? Keep reading to find out why I think you should avoid FreeLifetimeFuckFriends.com and every other “Free Lifetime” dating site.

3 Reasons Why FreeLifetimeFuckFriends.com is Shady

Have you ever read the terms and conditions of any dating site you’ve joined?

Probably not. Nobody ever really does. That’s really unfortunate because the terms and conditions are full of eye-opening information that can clue you into what a dating site is all about. What do I mean?

Well, you see, bad dating sites are really just a smoke-and-mirrors operation looking to fool you into spending money, even if they have “free” in the title. Especially if they have “free” in the title.

Because people get kind of angry when they are misled and charged for it, dating sites create terms and conditions of their site and all the things that they do for legal purposes. That way, if you find out that a site is, I don’t know, using stupid fake profiles, you can’t sue because you were supposed to read the terms and conditions.

So, before you join any dating site, I highly recommend you take the time to read what the dating site says about itself, it is very enlightening, to say the least.

Here are the three reasons why I feel that Free Lifetime Fuck Friends is not only shady but a complete waste of your time.

This website is far from free.

You would assume that a site called Free Lifetime Fuck Friends would be free, wouldn’t you? You know what they say about someone who assumes, don’t you?

FreeLifetimeFuckFriends.com is not free. Sure, you can join for free, but guess what happens after that? They ask you for credit card information to “verify that you’re an adult”.

Um, no.

The only reason FreeLifetimeFuckFriends.com asks you for those numbers is to charge you to use the site.

Here is what the terms have to say about that:

For your convenience, the costs and duration of your membership are supplied to you on our registration page on signup. The then applicable monthly subscription rate may be reserved against the Member’s available credit card limit.

If you join FreeLifetimeFuckFriends.com, here is what you’re going to pay:

$49.95 a month for the Gold membership
$39.61 a month for a membership to VibeVideo.com
$28.87 a month for a membership to VideoErotic.com

Not only are you being charged for a membership to FreeLifetimeFuckFriends.com, you’re being charged for not one, but two porn memberships.

Who in the heck pays for porn these days? If you join FreeLifetimeFuckFriends.com, you do.

Those B.S. profiles called “Love Stars.”

I hate Love Stars. The name makes you think there is going to be something amazing happening, but I promise you, there is nothing amazing about a Love Star.

Love Stars are fake profiles that are created to talk to you. They exist to make it seem like the site is active and fun, and try to get you to upgrade your membership to a paid one. The profile is usually full of pictures, has all kinds of interesting information in it, and the person behind the profile wants to talk to you and talk dirty.

That’s how they get you! If you are being engaged with and the conversation is kinky, you’re more likely to keep talking and keep paying to talk. That’s what FreeLifetimeFuckFriends.com wants.

I can promise you this: the profile you are seeing is fake. The person behind it is fake. Everything they are saying to you is fake.

Here is what the terms say:

You understand, acknowledge, and agree that some of the user profiles posted on this site may be fictitious or models or bots related to our “Love Stars” (LS) program. Our LS work for the site in an effort to stimulate dialogue with users and to stimulate user participation on the Website and Services. You understand, acknowledge, and agree that the information, text, and pictures contained in the LS profiles do not pertain to any actual person or member, but are included for entertainment purposes only. You further understand, acknowledge, and agree that, from time-to-time, LS may contact Website and Services users and members via electronic messaging, including for example, email, instant messages, and SMS.

Nope, you will never meet anyone.

Because FreeLifetimeFuckFriends.com is full of the fake profiles, this means you will never meet anyone for a date, for sex, or anything in between. The nature of the Love Stars profiles means that you can’t meet them, they’re either a bot or a paid employee.

I don’t know about you, but I don’t join dating sites to have nice conversations online all day. I join to have actual meetings.

Again, here is what their terms say:

You understand, acknowledge, and agree that no physical meeting will ever take place between you and LS, and that the exchange of messages between you and a LS is for entertainment purposes, as well as to encourage further or broader participation in our site’s Services and/or to monitor user activities.

Not only are you not going to meet anyone, but you’re also paying to not meet them. Fraud alert right there.

Final Thoughts on FreeLifetimeFuckFriends.com

I’ve seen many dating sites over the years and I’ve also seen all the fraudulent things the bad sites can do. FreeLifetimeFuckFriends.com is one of these sites, pulling all the same shady tactics that the worst dating sites pull.

If you’re a casual dater, or just looking for a hookup, you can find much better sites out there for your needs. Seriously, avoid FreeLifetimeFuckFriends.com, you’ll be much happier if you do.

Look, the end goal is to hook up right? Well, then you’re best bet is to check out this site and see what it has to offer. I think you’ll be happy with the result.