Looking To Hookup? Using A Sex Dating App Makes It Easier…
User experience reviews of apps, and online dating sites created for hooking up.
Hookup dating apps and sex sites are becoming the latest trend in online dating. I’ve spent a lot of personal time and money downloading, installing, testing, meeting potential partners, enjoying casual encounters, and having fun! However, not all apps are created equal. Therefore, I took the liberty to try and help you determine which are worth trying and which apps you need to avoid at all costs. It wasn’t always easy for me to meet girls. In fact, I had a hard time for years and discovered lots of options. I decided to try a couple of them out and then, I learned which were the absolute best.
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Feel free to scroll down for the full list of recommended apps and sites for hooking up locally.
Basically, I’ve created the ultimate sex app guide and I’ve reviewed so many that you can’t begin to imagine how many people I’ve met. Sexdatingapps.com was basically my way of giving back to everyone given that I’ve become somewhat of an expert on using these hookup apps.
The point is that I wasn’t always an expert and you definitely don’t need to be either. You can learn more about me and why I created this site if you’re truly interested.
Do Dating Apps Promising Sex Actually Work?
The short answer, YES – some of the good ones do. But before I get into that, let me quickly tell you the back story of why I wrote this. I was just sick and tired of people asking me time and time again which dating sites were the best and which apps got me laid. More importantly, I was so sick of hearing my friends complain about how ineffective, costly, and disappointing some apps were. I felt it was time to take a stand. Therefore, I created this and as they say, the rest is history.
I’d be willing to bet that I’ve had sex with TEN TIMES the number of girls you’ve slept with in your entire life. It’s not because I’m a male supermodel. It’s because I use very effective hook up networks that increase my chances of success. Putting the odds in my favor…
Using Sex Dating Apps To Hookup (What To Expect)
Let’s cover what you can expect from me first. If you’re expecting to find some stuffy and stale app reviews then you’ve got another thing coming. You can expect for me to continuously be updating reviews as these hookup platforms get updated over time.
You can also expect that I am going to be brutally honest in my reviews. You may hear a thing or two that you disapprove of when reading. I’m not here to make friends, though. I’m here to help you choose a network that best suits you!
I’ll be updating and ranking my reviews on a regular basis as things change so no review will ever go stale. You should also expect the newest and best sex dating apps to be reviewed right away on my site.
If you do not see an app or site that you are curious about and you’d like me to review it, please just email me and I will report on it. I like joining sites and hooking up regularly, and if you find something I haven’t – then pat yourself on the back.
You can also expect that I will be spending a great deal of time providing dating tips and tricks for you to help increase your chances of getting laid. I want you to be as successful as I have been when it comes to hooking up.
How I Ranked The Dating Apps
I only ranked the apps and mobile sites based on my personal experiences. I researched like crazy and spent time on a lot of networks mingling and doing other things with many new individuals.
A few things I took into consideration were the potential matches based on geolocation, potential dates based on user base, ease of use, price, the number of members, customer service, security, ease of canceling, and a few other factors. There are many factors that get taken into consideration when ranking.
Now that you’ve seen exactly what I specialize in after browsing the site, you know that I’m an expert when it comes to hooking up with people. But the real skill I’ve perfected is finding the best hook up apps that are out there, testing the heck out of them, and determining which can lead to the most successful “getting laid” rate possible.
There are a ton of factors that need to be assessed when trying to determine which apps are best for hook up opportunities. Here are a few factors that were important to me and those that I focused most on when testing out the dating apps that I’ve ranked.
App Network Size
I put a strong emphasis on network size because in order to hook up with a lot of individuals you need a mass amount of members to choose from.
I’m not saying the app needs to have 100 million users but you need a strong user base with commonalities to make connections with others. So this factor was taken heavily into consideration.
Level of Simplicity
I’m not a very technical person. In fact, I can barely operate my iPhone to send text messages and make phone calls let alone use an app to get laid.
So I made sure to rank ease of use from 1 to 10 for each app I installed and became a member of. If an app was extremely simple to use then it got much higher rankings than other smartphone apps. This may not really be an important factor to you but for me, I needed to include it.
Cost To Become An App User
Since I am very conservative when it comes to wasting my money, I took the cost of joining a site into consideration. Many of the hookup apps are 100% free to join, but not all of them. Some of the more serious casual sex networks require individuals to pay in order to join their network.
People may get pissed off about this but it’s actually not a bad thing. If anything, it weeds out some of the less serious individuals that aren’t looking to have sex with a local individual.
The reason anyone takes an interest in using a social hookup app is to do just that, socialize with someone and have sex today! In order to spark a fire, you need a good way of communicating with someone before meeting them to make a connection.
I’m a huge fan of sexting and sending dirty messages to as many girls as possible. I do it in a very strategic manner. Putting in the effort to turn someone on to the point that they yearn to meet up and bang that day. There’s a science behind this and I’ll get into this a bit more in a few articles.
I took all that described into consideration and ranked the apps one by one until I had the most definitive list of the best apps to use to hook up easily. I’ve listed the best out there for you so you don’t have to waste time doing all the research. Instead, you should install some of the best ones and try them out.
Oh, and I forgot to mention if you don’t have a smartphone that is compatible with the app itself you can always join the mobile site. Many times, it’s the exact same functionality even if it’s not in the app stores. Good luck and go get laid!
Top 10 List Of The Best Sex Dating & Strictly Hookup Apps
I’ve broken down the best of the best here for you to review and join. I’m talking about the best I have used from 2014 – 2020 ranked out of over a hundred. If you want to hook up then I’d suggest joining one of these. I’ve covered more below too.
Read each review, decide which is most appealing to you, and join the one that you feel is right for you. If it’s been ranked in the top 5 then you can’t go wrong! I threw in a bonus site as well in the rankings. It gets me laid on the reg too. (FYI, I’m crushing it on Fling right now.)
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Details On The Best Dating Apps For Hooking Up
While I’ve listed many of the top apps above I want to cover them here a bit more. You’ll find a quick overview of the top suggestions, as well as many of the most popular apps people, are using today. If you’re looking for lots of details, then you will want to read the individual reviews linked below.
(Some information pulled from the detailed Fling review here.)
What is it? Fling is a large community of people looking for many things including local sex hookups.
Type: Mobile App / Desktop Site
“Wow” factor? People with varying sexual fantasies are welcome in this community. Depending on who you contact; it could be a hook-up app, a standard dating app, or a swinger’s app.
Personal Experience: I kicked off my use of Fling back in 2014. I continue to use it because it rocks compared to all the rest. I’m constantly updating my review too as experiences change and evolve.
User-friendly? You bet…great layout, nice looking, and it’s simple to join. The functionality is impressive.
Value: It’s free to download the Fling mobile app. You have the choice to upgrade your membership for $19.99 a month. Once you sign up for the upgrade; your account is billed every month unless you cancel. There are also lots of free bonuses.
You cannot message members unless you sign up for the $19.99 a month membership.
Member Attractiveness: So, not all girls are smoke shows, but if you tweak the settings, you’ll found the dimes amongst the pennies.
Network: This is a huge network. You’ll find hot girls all over the place and def in your local area. Of course, the results will always vary, but the Fling site gives you ample opportunity to hookup.
To Sign Up: You can signup to Fling via iTunes, but not the Google Play app. However, the other option is to check out the mobile.fling.com site.
Membership Statistics: So, the Fling.com DB shares a network with Meet Locals and the infamous Instabang. You’ll find 60 million people and more using this network. Based on my research 90% of these people are looking to bang today.
Site Features: Post pics to your free profile, chat with hot members, view members, and message girls all over. Search a bunch of ways too (ethnicity, body type, age, and more). Wanna remain anonymous? No problem, got you covered here! Connect for straight-up nothing but sex!
(Some information pulled from the detailed Instabang review here.)
What is it? The normal IG doesn’t allow users to get dirty and post naughty photos. That’s why you need to go with Instabang versus the Instagram app. Send DMs, share images, meet to smash, and more!
Type: Mobile App / Desktop Site
“Wow” factor? Um, nailed it…LITERALLY! The Instabang app is kickass, no beating around the bush. Almost every user is looking to “Netflix and chill” for lack of a better word. The interface is money and simple to use. You’ll find lots of local people looking for casual hookups and the search options are simple to use too.
Personal Experience: I started talking to about five of the girls out of hundreds I looked through. Two of them were really into me. I had hooked up with the first one on the weekend and I was in bed with the other one before the following weekend. I did browse through tons of profiles and there were more connections.
User-friendly? The Instabang app is not available on iTunes or Google Play. Go to the mobile site at Instabang.com or you can click here to check it out. You cannot look at any of the features until you sign up. Once you sign up with your name, state, and zip code, you can look at other members and premium members can contact you. You cannot contact them back unless you upgrade your membership. Trust me, it’s entirely worth it just for the nude pics alone.
Value: The best value for a premium membership is $119.95 for 18 months. That comes out to $6.67 a month. You could also choose to pay $34.95 per month, $.50 a day trial membership, $99.95 for 12 months, and $24.95 a month for a Silver membership. I saw no indication of what the difference between the Gold and Silver membership is and being that I like to get right down to business, I became a paying member immediately. You can join here for free though as well.
Member Attractiveness: These members are hot, really hot. You can find local users pretty easily too. You will find the girls/guys you’re looking for and ones that are looking for sex – simple as that. What will typically happen is you’ll get matched with someone, meet up, do the deed, and that’s it (all from your smartphone too).
Network: There is a section that shows everyone who is online as well as members nearby. There is nothing like being close by and instantly getting notified that someone in close proximity wants to hookup.
Member Stats: Here’s the basic rundown…29 million members as of 2014 and more than 40 million as of 2020. There are LOTS of ladies on here too. If you’re unsuccessful, then they’ll hook you up with a refund too. This network is growing at a rapid pace.
Best App Features: The app provides a Video Chat option, and you can see which members are on video chat. They also have a free live cam section. It shows which members have viewed you. There are galleries of member submitted pics and video. You are guaranteed to get laid, or you get a free membership. Actually, they are one of the only sites out there that offer a guarantee.
Adult Friend Finder
(Some information pulled from the detailed Adult Friend Finder review here.)
What is it? The oldest hookup network on the planet. Founded by Andrew Conru, this site is the one that all others have followed.
Type: Mobile App / Desktop Site
“Wow” factor? I’d say the wow factor here is the sheer volume of users that the network has. It’s insane just how big it truly is and how many millions of people use the site daily.
Personal Experience: Not much to say about this one other than it works like a charm and that I was able to quickly connect with locals interested in having sex. Customer support was very friendly too when I reached out to them.
User-friendly? The AFF.com network is very user-friendly. I’ve had to connect with support over some navigation questions and they were immediately responsive. This network is user friendly and ideal for the person looking for a quick and easy hookup experience.
Value: Joining is free, they’ve got upgrade options just like the others which will give you more features, better experiences – all that jazz and more.
Member Attractiveness: Based on my research and experience, the members are very attractive. The wide range of people and the sheer size of the network makes it that much easier to find someone you’re attracted to.
Network: Easily see everyone that’s available locally, right now, based on zip code and ready to hookup.
Member Stats: Millions and millions. If not the most populated, definitely #1 or # 2 for member base.
Best App Features: The messaging in-app feature is by far the best here and they make it easy to connect and complement other users that spark your interest.
(Some information pulled from the detailed UberHorny review here.)
What is it? The Uberhorny hookup site and app are exactly what you think. An app built around the premise of the Uber app being able to get you from point A to point B relatively quickly. Only this one is centered around hooking up.
Type: Smartphone App
“Wow” factor? Everyone downloads this app or visits the site for one reason only, and that’s to have sex, so there’s no beating around the bush. You don’t even have to wade through a bunch of terrible profiles either. Just think of your ideal sexual crush and start from there. She might just be waiting.
Personal Experience: I was messaging, video chatting, and group chatting with several girls in my first couple of weeks. The weekend after I joined, I started talking to 3 of them on the phone. I hit it off with all 3. Truthfully, I was surprised that the one I thought was the absolute hottest was the one that started talking about meeting up.
I didn’t hesitate to take the hint and I met her at a local bar. She looked even better than her pictures and I could tell by the look on her face she was into me right away. I hooked up and I had so much fun that I did it again and again.
User-friendly? This is a streamlined, no-nonsense site. They make it quick and easy to get right to the casual encounter you’re looking for. I love the little galleries of users that pop up and prompt you to choose which ones you think are hot. When you make your choice, you can send them a wink. That’s before you even pay.
Value: Once you pay, you have full freedom to message these girls and exchange content. The group chat is fun, but the video chat is a whole other level. I couldn’t believe how hot some of the girls were that were baring all on video. Uberhorny made it so easy to find casual sex partners.
Member Attractiveness: The women on Uberhorny are smoking hot! It’s mind-blowing to me when you can get laid with the click of a button. This dating app is like Uber except instead of looking for a ride; you’re looking for a girl that’s DTF.
Network: Other hookup sites I have used had some fake profiles, and I can honestly say that UberHorny was 100% legit and might be the most effective dating site that I’ve joined to date.
(Some information pulled from the detailed SnapSext review here.)
What is it? It’s a life-changing app that makes sexting privately possible. This was my Snapchat replacement and it’s considered to be the official Snapchat of Sex. Send snaps, meet up, have sex and keep moving on with your day.
Type: Mobile app
Personal Experience: This is a solid app for those looking for a network with that Snapchat look and feel. The time I spent sending videos seemed to make the experience more enjoyable and thrilling. No real downside to using this platform. Soon as I figured out the username I wanted, I was off to the races. An enjoyable hookup experience for sure.
User-friendly? This app wasn’t available on any of the marketplaces (not Google Play nor iTunes). However, you can download the app at the mobile site. Just go to the main Snapsext site, enter your information, and proceed accordingly.
The signup process is a breeze. Just enter your info (age, zip code, email, etc.) and start using the app. The girls will all pretty much assume you’re on the site looking for sex. So, don’t tell them that you’re looking for a real relationship or they’re bound to run for the hills.
Value: There is a lot of value here. It’s a free network but you’ll want to upgrade to premium to connect more closely with people. In terms of pricing, you’ll be golden if you just invest $6.67 a month or even just $0.50 per day during a trial period. This is pretty economical compared to the other options out there.
Member Attractiveness: Let me just say that my eyes were ready to pop out of my head because the members were so hot.
Membership Stats: The bulk of Snapsext members are in Canada and the United Kingdom. There were almost 70,000 members at the time of my original review in November 2014. It’s now 2020, and there are literally 80M members using this within the United States alone.
Best App Features: There’s a section that shows you who is online and another that shows members who are near you. It has Video Chat, which is a killer feature. There’s also a live cam section and galleries or photos/videos that people have submitted.
Hang on, there are more worth mentioning here…
The app that changes social dating for good is none other than Tinder.com. Lots of users are swiping looking for sex, while some swipe to meet their soul mate. Strategically using the geolocation filter and age filter will help you hook up here.
There are well over 60 million users on Tinder today, but truth be told, this one has taken a back seat lately. Still a very respectable option and one worth checking out.
It’s free to join, but you’ll be paying either $19.95, $44.85, or $59.70 depending on the upgrade you choose. Check out the Tinder review here by doing a search for Tinder.com, you’ll find the details.
I had to mention Facebook because so many people use this to connect for relationships. While most are not trying to have sex with one another, some are.
It’s a stubborn approach to online dating, especially if you want to do it on the DL. At any rate, there are over 100M people using Facebook, so it’s worth a mention but not a premium contender.
We all know what the social media platform Instagram is, so no need to cover that, but it’s worth mentioning that many people use the DM (direct message) feature of IG to connect with potential dates.
The problem is, people take this too far and explicit content almost always gets removed and gets you banned for good. Like I said, worth mentioning but not a top choice for those looking for a casual fling.
The Bumble app is kinda like Tinder, only the woman is in full control. As potential matches come through as notification, the woman has up to 24 hours to chat with that connection or they disappear. This app was created by a former employee of Tinder named Whitney Wolfe Herd. She started the network in 2014 and it’s grown tremendously since then.
I will go as far as saying that it’s the preferred app over Tinder for women today. That said, it’s not nearly as “sex-focused” like those I’ve ranked in my top 5 list. Many women are looking for a long-term relationship here and that changes things for many men just interested in hookups.
Although I’m not gay, I do feel it’s important to share an app for my LGBTQ friends. Some of my gay friends have verbatim described the Grindr app as being a “local hookup playground for queer people” and I couldn’t possibly describe it any better.
Although most of the large dating networks cater to any sexual orientation, sometimes a focused app does the job better. As you can imagine, this is flooded primarily with male users and they’re all pretty open to hooking up anywhere at any time.
The Hinge.co app is different. The app claims to be designed in a way that things are not permanent, but instead they get deleted. They limit the number of matches you get and they require users to complete a quick questionnaire.
This gives them the ability to match users quickly based on an algorithm they’ve designed in house. Hinge on to a hookup and delete yourself when you’re done with them – simple as that.
Last up here, we’ve got the Feeld app. This app will look really familiar if you’ve been using Tinder, Fling, or any other apps I’ve mentioned. Here’s how it works, you log into the network through a verified Facebook profile, and you just start swiping through all the results.
It’s primarily for polyamorous couples but there are some folks on there just looking for a casual fling. If you’re looking to stay in-app within the iOS or Google Play stores, then this might be the choice for you.
Notes On Hooking Up And Dating Online For Adults
Why do some people absolutely kill it using online dating, while others have unsatisfying hit and miss experiences? Believe it or not, it has little to do with what you look like, how much money you have, or even how smooth you are.
You can be the biggest prize in the world in real life, but if your likeness on dating sites and apps doesn’t reflect that, then you probably won’t get lucky as much as you should.
Likewise, there are geeky or awkward dudes who meet so many girls online, leading to such a parade of hot girls, that you’d think they’re rock stars.
So what’s the difference? It has nothing to do with THEM but everything to do with the girls that they’re pursuing.
If you know girls; how they think, how they feel, how they react, how they respond to certain situations and stimuli, and what they want (versus what they think they want!) then you’ll get laid on dating apps like you were Leonardo DiCaprio.
I’m going to walk you through all of that, breaking down every single step you need to take in order to get more tail than a toilet seat!
Even better, I’m going to tell you which of the thousands of social apps and sites you need to be on to improve your chances of making the magic happen.
In fact, I’ve already done that for you above, so you’ve got the tools that you need. However, I’m taking things a step further because that’s what I do and what I’m good at.
So buy a big box of condoms, get some extra sleep, and clear your schedule – because you’re going to need it.
Throughout my site, you’ll find lots of articles, tutorials, reviews of networks, and even the occasional scam reported. I want you to use the search function at the top and search for what you’re looking for too.
My guess is that I’ve covered the site or app you’re looking to join. I have written an article on the topic you’re curious about and I’ve shared answers to the very same questions you’ve got in your head. All you need to do is a tiny bit of research and just take some action – nothing more, nothing less!
Avoid Dangerous Dating Scams Today
I share A LOT of information here, not just the winners. With all the options out there today, it should come as no surprise that there are hundreds if not thousands of scams out there.
Throughout SexDatingApps.com, I point out some really awful things about some networks and the apps/sites called out are undoubtedly the scum of the scum when it comes to scamming people.
Whether you’re looking to pay for a membership or even worse, pay a girl to hook up with you, some things are best to be avoided. If you read somewhere that I’ve called a network a scam, then understand that they should be completely avoided at all costs.
Frequently Asked Questions & Answers
I created this frequently asked questions section to help answer some of the questions that I’ve received over the years. Most of these questions require pretty generalized answers so I felt it was appropriate to answer them below in a Q & A fashion.
If you come across a question that you really don’t understand or that you need further clarification on, feel free to email me. I’ll be glad to help you out. Let me waste no further time and get down to business.
Do dating apps and mobile dating sites really work?
Okay, this is a really silly question but I get it all the time. The answer is a very loud YES! If I could slap you and scream the answer in your ear then I would.
To be completely honest, there are plenty of dating apps on the market that exist out there. There are plenty that I consider to be wonderful that will help get you laid. I’ve spent more time downloading hook up apps, joining sites, and messaging girls to meet up.
Are all sites and apps equal or are some known to be considered scams?
I’ll be completely honest with you (as I always am). No, all online hook up apps and sites are not equal. Not even by a long shot.
There are some that exist which I would say are 100% scams. The good news is that I’ve done my best to try and point out those that are scams as well as those that are great.
The reason I share it all with you is that I want you to fully understand what constitutes one being a scam and what makes one really legit. All you have to do is read some of my reviews and you’ll understand what I’m talking about.
Are they all free or do you have to pay for some memberships?
Okay, so here’s the deal with this. There are many free dating sites out there that you can join. In fact, it’s quite common for most to allow you to join for free and even create a profile.
However, I strongly believe that you get what you pay for. Most of the sites that I’ve joined have an option or a requirement of some sort where you have to pay to really make any progress on the site.
What I need you to realize is that these sites cost a lot of money for the owners to operate. As much as they would love to fund your casual sex experiences (and they do to an extent) they need help to keep the sites up and running. You help by providing a small membership fee.
This helps them pay for website hosting, employees, technology, and all that other fun stuff you can do on the site. Another thing that’s great about paying for a membership is that it weeds out all the jackasses and the people that aren’t serious about hooking up.
What if I can’t make a decision on any dating platform?
Yes, you’ve got plenty of options out there in terms of sites you can join. However, I’ve done the heavy lifting for you and have already narrowed your choices down to the best dating apps to use on the Internet. Just take a peek at the table above where I rank all the sites that I think are the best.
What are the typical payment options like on a hookup site?
The good news is that they make it simple for you. Most of them have trial memberships where you can join to try the services out for a short period of time. I tend to avoid the trials and just buy the monthly memberships instead.
Some of them even have an annual membership that’s a much better value when it comes to joining too. You can save up to 50% annually on some. Then there are some that operate on a credit-based system to actually do things in the member’s area like interact with girls and video chat.
It really varies from site to site. The most common membership is a 30-day or monthly membership. If you’re serious about finding someone to have sex with and you’re in it for the long haul then I say go for the annual membership!
Which site do you recommend the most over all other sites?
This is a tough question to answer. It really depends on your motive and what type of person you’re looking to date. For example, if you’re looking to video chat on your mobile phone naked with someone then Snapsext might be the site for you.
However, if you’re looking to just meet someone, have a fling, and maybe look at some pics then I’d say Fling or Instabang might be your best choice.
Now if your only intention is to literally f*** someone once and not have to see them ever again then you may have the best luck with the original fling.com site because it’s tried and true and works like a charm!
Are there any other things you recommend I do if I’m just getting started with dating online?
Well, aside from all the online dating tips that I provide in my blog posts and joining one of these sex apps there is one thing that I recommend you do if you want to increase your efficiency and level of success.
I’ve recently started taking nootropics while performing advanced search functions using dating apps. I’ve also started taking them during my dates and they’ve proven to be a game-changer.
I would suggest looking into taking some of these brain pills but only after you’ve familiarized yourself with the dating sites I’ve recommended. They do help you score more girls in a roundabout way. Sometimes when I’m super anxious, I’ll take one tincture of CBD oil or a gummy to help calm my nerves. That does help quite a bit.
Would you ever go back to using mainstream dating apps after using adult dating apps for so long?
Honestly, I don’t think I would ever go back to using any mainstream dating sites ever. Well, let me step back for a second here and clarify that.
I do join mainstream sites for the sake of reviewing them to see if they are any good. I will continue to join sites like Zoosk and Plenty of Fish just for research purposes unless one proves to work better. However, I’ve yet to be proven wrong still to this day.
I’ve covered everything important hookup app today. As you can plainly see there is no shortage of online dating apps you can use to find sexual encounters. Those that I’ve listed are what I’d consider the best hook up apps to use in 2020. If you’ve got any questions or concerns, don’t hesitate to reach out please, or leave a comment! If you want us to review your app, then you can submit it here.