Sex Chat Rooms: How To Use Them To Your Advantage

Do you remember back in the day when they had nothing but AOL dial-up? I think the sex chat rooms were perhaps the most widely used places where people would hang out to meet someone. Although the world has evolved and AOL chat is no more, that doesn’t mean that chat rooms don’t work.

In fact, they work quite well today, you just need to know how, when, and where to use them to your best advantage.

I mean, let’s face it…

You’re NOT going to meet some super-rich sex partner that you’re going to set sail on some private yacht in a few days. I highly doubt that! However, who you MIGHT meet is an insanely horny local looking to have sex an hour ago. Yup – they want it like, RIGHT NOW!

Here’s what you need to know about these sex chat rooms and how to use them to get laid fast. The first thing that I can say is that that almost all of the best sex dating apps in America have these chat rooms in each of their networks. So long as you’re a member of these networks, then you’ve got a leg up on everyone. Which is why I’m going to suggest that you join one before you even finish reading this article. Once you’ve joined one of the top dating apps that I’ve suggested, it’ll then be time for us to get down to business and work this to the core. Here’s my list of tips…

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Six Best Sex Chat Room Tips For Success

Okay, by now if you’re reading this, you’ve most likely joined one of the few apps that I’ve suggested and you’re now part of a sex dating network. If so, then congrats, you’ve done your part – now time for me to do mine.

Get Hyper Local

The first tip that I want to give you when spending time in these chat rooms is to get hyper-local whenever possible. Not all networks have local rooms but those that do, you need to take full advantage of by joining them.

I find that even using a chat room that’s city-based versus town-based is enough to make a difference. Remember, these members are looking to connect locally and if you can point out the fact that you’re one of the locals, then you’re in a better spot than the rest.

Niche-Down

What I mean by this is that if you get a chance to niche things down and you can find a few sex chat rooms that cater to something you like, then join the conversations. It doesn’t have to be sexually, just something that you can relate to quite well. If it is sexual then even better.

I tend to go for rooms where people are in the New York City or Miami area and those that like dirty snaps. Hey, that’s my thing, what can I say. The sky is the limit here with the niches as far as the chat rooms are concerned. Honestly, it can be almost anything that you can think of which creates some sort of commonality between you and others.

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Never Act Rude

I don’t care if someone is being a complete asshole in these chat rooms. Do not even think for a second that it’s okay for you to act even slightly rude to anyone. Instead, simply flag them as being inappropriate and remove yourself from the situation.

You do not want to jeopardize yourself, the health of your account within the network, and yourself in general. It’s not worth it, there are lots of people hanging around these chat rooms that want to hook up so if someone is being a dick, don’t retaliate, just move on.

Stay On Topic

Never take the chat in the room to another “off-topic” conversation. People start these sex chat rooms to keep things focused, easy to find, and simple to use. When you start talking about something completely off topic you’re likely putting your account at risk and moderators may end up banning you from the rooms – just saying.

Side Chats

The end goal is to eventually start some type of one-on-one side chats with someone. After you’ve connected with them, you can politely ask if they’d like to take things private so that you two can become more familiar with one another. It may take time to establish this connection but once you do you’re off to the races! Trust me, you’ll most likely hook up more, the more side chats that you have.

Keep It In-App/Site

Never take the chats (whether they be video snaps, live streams or text chats) outside of the network. The beauty of this technology and the networks is that they’re able to protect individual members and keep them safe and sound. When you start communicating outside of the app, that data is no longer safe and secure. Keep that in mind that next time you send a sext message to a stranger or you send them a dick pic via iMessage.

Conclusion: Sex Chat Rooms Do Work

If you want to communicate on a more intimate level with people that you have something in common with and those that are actually local, then I suggest giving these chat rooms a shot.

See also: AOL Chat Rooms For Adults

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Ryan Malone is a serial dater who enjoys casual flings. He created this website for all the cocksman out there looking for the best ways to find casual encounters in all the weirdest places. You can follow him on Twitter and sometimes find him posting videos with opinions on dating sites on YouTube.

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