What Happened to Destiny Benedict aka “Butthole Girl?”

If you aren’t up to speed on your recent Netflix bangers, this topic may be a foreign language of sort to you.  However, you most likely landed on this page by typing in “what happened to butthole girl,” so I’m going to make an assumption you’ve seen the docuseries called “The Most Hated man on the Internet.” If not, you can click that link and read my notes on it without getting any spoilers.

During this series, a man named Hunter Moore runs a website called “IsAnyoneUp.com,” and to save you the trouble of reading my prior post, it’s a website that is all about revenge porn.  If you are lost, then I urge you to read the above link and spend three minutes familiarizing yourself with it.

Who is Destiny Benedict?

I hate even typing this, but Destiny Benedict is one of the main characters in this Netflix feature.  Her involvement on the website is extensive, and she falls prey to Hunter’s methods of getting women to expose themselves.  As a woman who is dubbed “butthole girl,” you can imagine what she did to earn that title.  (I’ll explain later in this article.)

According to Heavy.com, Benedict is a sex worker and cam model.  As mentioned, she was interviewed in the series and made a focal point when Moore got her to do some lewd acts, including inserting a cellular phone in her butthole, all which Moore recorded and being the asshole he is, uploaded it to his website for the world to see.

The Heavy article also mentions that Hunter Moore is now living in my neck of the woods, Miami, Florida.  I truly hope I don’t run into this piece of shit at any of the Miami hook up spots as he’s truly a night his Dad should have pulled out a lot sooner. I’ll leave it at that.

What is Destiny Doing Today?

She’s apparently an adult content creator who is on Twitter under the name Destiny Brat.  She had over 4,400 followers but I would expect that to grow with the success of the series.

She’s talked about the Netflix series on Twitter, and even went as far as talking about the exact phone “butt hole girl” used in the famous rectum video.  She stated it was “an og Galaxy S.”

Can’t make this up, folks.

Perhaps what the show didn’t really cover, at least from my memory, is that she was a webcam model before the series was out.  She went on record saying:

Guys, I did webcamming before I ever was on IAU. I was a sex worker BEFOREHAND. Your comments don’t make sense. y’all are coming on here acting confused & shocked that I do sex work still? Of course. I feel empowered and free in my body & ITS CONSENSUAL.

Admittedly, I felt very sorry for her when I saw her butthole video getting the views it got.  However, if she was a cam model prior to this, she shouldn’t feel any shame and I really don’t feel sorry for her. We don’t know if her affairs and video footage was and is private, as cam models are all different, but when your in the porn game, your in the porn game.  It’s a decision she had to make long ago, but I’m happy to see her owning it and presumably doing okay.

She’s also said to be trying to reunite with some of her children.  She has six, according to reports.  After the butthole video surfaced her Dad’s side of the family

distanced themselves from me because of the butthole girl stuff and formed an alliance with my children’s fathers helping raise them

Sad, I never like to see parents separated from children unless they put them in harm’s way.  However, you really have to think about your life before you put your butthole online.

Later on, Benedict started drinking alcohol and eventually met a man on the website, flew out to live with him, only to find out he lived with his Mom, but eventually the relationship got toxic and she found herself moving in with a friend in Las Vegas.  When she arrived, she found out she was pregnant.

She’s been distanced from her kids for 9-12 years and stated that she wasn’t allowed to connect with her first three due to the butt hole girl incident.

She has a lot to say on Twitter, saying at times that she wishes this life on nobody, and that nobody should have to endure the pain and harassment she has. She also revealed she has a heart condition.  As a human, I want to wish her nothing but the best in her life and hope she finds balance to express herself, yet rekindle with her kids.  She deserves that.  Her three kids she is raising were quoted as saying they want to know their brothers and sisters.  I truly hope that happens.  🙏

Special thanks to Heavy.com for a lot of this information.