Friends Threesome Fun: How To Invite Them

Friends are awesome and friends who are into threesome fun are the absolute best! More and more couples are opening up their marriage/relationship to increase the excitement and spice things up. Gone are the days of thinking threesomes are taboo, instead this type of relationship is still very much sought out not only by men but by women also.

Now, your partner may not be down for the type of threesome you’re hoping for, i.e. your girlfriend may be ok with the idea of two men taking care of her sexual desires but, she may not be down for another woman taking the muff dive.

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If the two of you are into exploration, though, a threesome is a great option to make things more interesting in the bedroom.

If you are considering having a threesome, there are some definite things to keep in mind to ensure that things go smoothly and that everyone involved has a good time.

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Inviting Friends For A Successful Threesome

Here are the only tips that you need to know for inviting some friends to join in on the fun. Yes, sex is better with friends!

Tip #1: Communicate correctly!

Before you can move onto having a threesome, you’re going to have to breach the topic with your partner (if you’re not the third person). Even though everyone has thought about having more than one partner in the bedroom, it isn’t something that they actually, legitimately, truly think will one day happen.

If you’re a man, be prepared for your girlfriend or wife to freak out a little. She may think you’re wanting to cheat on her or that you’re wanting to leave her. If you’re going to have that talk, you need to be prepared.

If you’re a woman, be prepared for your guy to be super excited and ready to go. Like, he was ready to go yesterday with a threesome. Don’t let it offend you, just know that most men have been dreaming of something like this for a very long time.

Either way, make sure you’re prepared to answer questions about why and with who and also be ready to listen to whatever their thoughts may be.

And sorry guys, also be prepared for a few nights alone on the couch or a mean right hook from your lady…some women are just not going to want to hear about it.

Tip #2: Don’t be jealous – ever.

One of the biggest problems with having a threesome is when jealousy sneaks in. It is sometimes inevitable, once a third person is touching your partners’ goods, no matter how sexy it is, you might start to get a little jealous.

If you’re planning on a threesome, you have got to leave that jealousy behind.

Seriously, if you can’t handle the fact that your partner will be pleasured by someone else and will probably have their private parts in their hands, mouth, or crotch, you’re not going to be able to handle a threesome.

If you and your partner are considering having a three-way, keep the lines of communication open that got you to that point in the first place and if one or both of you notice jealousy creeping in, talk about it.

Tip #3: Keep it fun and for your partner.

Threesomes are supposed to be fun. I mean, if they weren’t, who would want to bother with them? But, once you start analyzing things or trying to be super strict, that fun kind of slips away.

Don’t start asking questions, either out loud or mentally, about fidelity.

Please, don’t start making your partner feel bad because they’re doing things to another person and enjoying themselves.

Don’t get weird because they’re now doing things you’ve been asking them to do and they were holding back.

If you start being bedroom-bossy, you’re going to take the fun completely out of something that should be rocking your world.

Tip #4: Try new things and go with the flow.

Marriage and relationship sex quickly becomes routine. When things are routine, what else are they?

Boring!

Threesomes allow you to explore things in the bedroom you may have been shy about trying. Maybe it’s something as simple as trying out some dirty talk, or maybe it’s experimenting with some new positions and a little BDSM. Whatever it is, a threesome can help give you the boost you’ve been lacking and ultimately help you get a little freakier.

And hey, if you learn new things in the bedroom, imagine how much it will spice up your marital bed when it’s just the two of you!

Tip #5: Pay attention to your partner.

When I say pay attention to your partner, I don’t mean make sure they get enough satisfaction. I mean, I hope I don’t need to say that, anyway.

No, when I say that, I want you to sit back and watch your partner as they are enjoying themselves. Not only will it turn you on, but it will also show you your partner in a new light and maybe even make you realize why you loved them in the first place.

So, lay back and enjoy your own personal porn show!

Why Threesomes Can Strengthen Your Relationship

It might sound counterintuitive, but a threesome can actually strengthen your relationship.

How you ask?

Well, first, threesomes are a good way to refresh your sex life. Sex can quickly get stale and a threesome brings back that excitement you had when you first started dating your partner. This is especially true if you are both doing something new and getting out of the comfort zone many of us find ourselves after sex with the same person year after year.

Also, a threesome can strengthen an already strong bond you have with your beloved. Sure, having a threesome can be a bad idea if your relationship isn’t already top-notch, but if you and your partner are strong as Fort Knox, you’re going to be even closer after doing something that requires adventure, communication, and a huge amount of trust.

Finally, a threesome brings a level of satisfaction into the relationship you may not have had for a while. Sex is always great, but as I mentioned before, it can get stale. With a threesome, it is almost a guarantee that everyone involved is going to be so turned on that getting off multiple times is going to happen.

In fact, if you have a threesome and someone who is involved does not orgasm at least once, something is seriously wrong. Threesomes are about sex and fun and everybody should get the satisfaction that they deserve.

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Final Thoughts

Threesomes aren’t going to be for everyone and that’s ok.

But, if you and your partner have discussed it and are thinking of inviting a friend into the bedroom, the two of you are embarking on something exciting, sexy, and beyond amazing.

As long as you keep things light, fun, and keep the jealousy out of the boudoir, you are almost guaranteed to have a closer relationship with your partner and isn’t that something we all desire?

I’d like to wrap things up by saying that if you don’t want to ask friends to join, then you can always using the original swingers dating network e.g. the Adult Friend Finder Network.

Ryan Malone

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Ryan Malone is a serial dater who enjoys casual flings. He created this website for all the cocksman out there looking for the best ways to find casual encounters in all the weirdest places. You can follow him on Twitter and sometimes find him posting videos with opinions on dating sites on YouTube.

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