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Best Places To Meet Horny Older Women That Want Sex

There’s the type of men out there that like the typical college girl and then there’s the type that prefers older women. I like dating more mature women on certain occasions because it typically yields a more enjoyable experience. However, you need to know where to go if you want to meet these older women that are willing and wanting to have sex with someone.

Not an easy task, yet not impossible – that’s for sure!

Typically speaking, the traditional cougar doesn’t hang out at the local nightclub and certainly not at one of these Miami clubs like Liv (althought college girls party there) and definitely not at any strip clubs. If you want to find a mature cougar that’s willing to get down and dirty, then you need to visit locations where they hang out.

Yes, these mature women are everywhere but if you want to optimize your chances of successfully banging one, then there are a couple of spots that you can spend time at. For the record, women do hang out at these places I’m about to mention with the intentions of eventually banging some guy. Don’t think that they aren’t on the prowl as well because they most certainly are!

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Top 7 Places To Meet Older Women Looking To Hookup

As I said, you can find older or mature women just about anywhere on the planet, but you’ll want to visit the locations which the horny ones spend most of their time. I’ve narrowed it down to ten places for you to check out.

There’s not a single doubt in my mind with this list either. I’m very convinced and can confirm that all of these locations are places where the pretty local cougar hangs out. If you don’t believe me, all you need to do is visit them and try…

Swanky Upscale Hotels

I’ve harped on this type of location more times than I can even count. Upscale hotel lounges are where it’s at if you want to meet a local mature lady. Having done plenty of traveling in the past, I know that these hotel lounges are locations where older women spend most of these time. Honestly, this type of place never fails and more than 50% of the single mature women hanging at these upscale hotel lounges are looking for sex.

The reason I like this option is that many of the cougars/older ladies that spend time in these hotel bars and lounges because they travel and need a place close to their room to blow off some steam. The high-end bar or lounge sounds like just the place.


I’ve recently learned that no matter where you are, you can almost always find an older woman looking to spend some quality time with a man. You can do this by using Fling. It’s perhaps the easiest way to connect with a horny woman – that is, based on my personal experiences.

I don’t want to say that I’m lazy but I like to take the quickest path to success and completion. For the most part, when it comes to getting laid and having sex with women, Fling helps me accomplish just that.

All it really takes is putting in a little bit of effort into your profile and letting it be known that you’re on the hunt for a mature woman. I can guarantee that you’ll be able to connect with someone locally if you simply do that and nothing more. It’s not just you that trusts this network but millions of others that do as well and that’s what makes it so easy and effective.

Local Wine Bars

If you live near any small wine bars, then my advice would be to head there and buy a bottle. You’ll most likely find some older woman posted up there with her own bottle just looking for someone to chat with.

Be a gentleman and offer her a glass of wine and you’re off to the races. Most women hang at these wine bars because they know they’re not going to have to deal with the typical rambunctious college crowd.

If you want to really maximize your time and chances, head to the wine bar at a time when it’s least occupied, preferably late at night an hour before closing time.

The Gym

Cougars and mature women hang out at the gym. They love spending time working on their physique. I actually work out at a very nice gym in the Four Seasons in Brickell and it’s one that’s crawling with mature women at all hours of the day.

Take the initiative to speak with them and let them know you’re interested in them from a non-sexual perspective. Meaning, spark up a conversation and see what happens. Just don’t go interrupting them if they’re in the middle of a set. There is something to consider which is called gym etiquette.


Do you live near a casino? Well, I live near one called the Hard Rock and it’s a place I frequent on the regular. I also spend quite a bit of time in Las Vegas at the Wynn as well as Aria. So long as the casino is halfway decent, you’ll be fine.

I like to play table games where mature women are already playing. I ask them nicely if they mind if I join. You can also hang around the slot machines as some older women just like to drink and play slots to pass time.

Yoga Studio

I’ve met my fair share of older women at many yoga studios across the country. Typically, my play is that I use this thing called a class pass which allows me to check out various yoga studios throughout the country. I attend random yoga classes and there is almost always at least one sexy single cougar there trying to work on her core, breathing, and flexibility.

It’s a great spot to meet cougars because those that attend typically respect their bodies and they attend classes to let off some steam and frustration as well as improve their inner self. Don’t go trying to hook up with someone or putting a move on some attendee during the class, but sniff them out after and spark up a conversation if you think it’s got legs.

Local Upscale Malls

If you live near a mall that has shops like Chanel, Nordstrom, Neiman Marcus, Burberry, and other stores that are more upscale then you’ll want to spend some time there to connect with older women.

There’s almost always the lonely older woman doing some shopping while her husband is at work. It happens almost every single day and these women end up meeting a nice younger guy willing to take them to lunch followed by a ride on the pound town express. Trust me, it works like a charm!


Well, there you have it! Those are the best places I suggest trying if you want to connect with a horny older woman today. Whatever you do, please just promise me you will not resort to meeting someone to pay for services. There’s nothing good that will come out of hiring an escort for sex. Trust me, you’re better off putting in the effort to meet a cougar using the few free sites I use instead.


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    1. DHU is 100% NOT on my top list because it doesn’t work as good as you say. Perhaps it does in Norway, but not in the United States.

  2. I tried the site you have listed and everyone of them are a pain in the ass to even join ,, you have any that are a little easier ??

    1. Hi Rick, if you think that signing up for a dating network is a pain in the ass, then perhaps you don’t have the patience for dating via apps/sites and it’s not for you. These are pretty standard registration processes that are about as easy as it gets. If you’re not willing to put in that work, then this isn’t for you.

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      Chris, if you read some of my updates you’ll see that I explain how to meet girls who are willing to give body rubs and massages on dating sites. They’re everywhere, you just need to know how to find them.

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  4. David Smith says:

    Most of these sites are for usa and I live in scotland.
    Is tehir any app for scotland?
    Your you did this 2018 and its almost 2020 now so any chance you could update the website?

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