Today I’m here to talk about a topic that many may feel is extremely strange, weird, and downright disturbing. But hey, I don’t judge (unless it’s dangerous and super illegal like hiring Bedpage girls). The topic at hand is adult breastfeeding and how it relates to dating in the world today. Yes, I’m referring to anr dating sites aka abf personals. There’s a lot of slang here, so get ready.
There are TONS of dating sites that focus on this taboo dating fetish. It’s just as out there as the adults wearing diapers but that’s an entirely different topic. At any rate, if you’re into the ABF and ANF stuff then this update is strictly for your pleasure and enjoyment. I’ve covered ALL the best hookup sites that offer this type of dating experience. Here’s what I know about this stuff…
Adult Breastfeeding – What The Heck Is It?
Adult breastfeeding is still pretty taboo in the dating world. Men and women who enjoy the art of breastfeeding can’t always just put that knowledge out to the general public for fear of being judged as strange or sick, so ABF-ANF fans are often left to find other like-minded individuals in other ways.
Adult breastfeeding occurs for a number of reasons and it isn’t just for sexual reasons. Yes, there are women and men who enjoy the titillating thought of suckling and bonding, which often leads to other things.
But, sometimes breastfeeding an adult has a practical purpose, such as keeping the milk from drying up when the baby is not nursing for some reason, or maybe a woman just wants to keep that sexy look going after her little one is done with nursing.
Whatever reason you’re into breastfeeding as an adult, chances are that you can’t find someone to join you. The ABF community is very small, and you usually can’t just ask a regular date to whip out her boobs for dessert. If you’re someone who is into the ABF world already, or it’s a newly discovered fetish, the best way to find a woman looking to share her bounty with you is through a fetish or specific ABF dating site.
How do you know what sites are worth using and aren’t just going to lead to dead ends? Keep reading to find out which ABF dating sites are going to help you quench your thirst for breast milk.
The Top 10 Best Dating Sites for ABF Fans
Here are my top choices for those looking to do a little breastfeeding and hooking up for the heck of it…
Adult Friend Finder
Adult Friend Finder is typically considered a traditional dating site, but do not let that incorrect assumption fool you. Not only will you find others into adult breastfeeding, but you’ll find many groups dedicated to just that. The AdultFriendFinder Network has a large and reputable community, with over 80 million members, so you’re sure to find someone that matches your interests.
These aren’t going to be prudes, I’m warning you. The ABF community on Adult Friend Finder is expressive, open, and they know what they want and what they want to talk about. With no ads, mobile app capability for Apple and Android, and improved security in place, Adult Friend Finder is probably the best method for connecting socially with other ABF fans.
Remember, though, that because the ABF community is so small, oftentimes the women you match with will not be local. My best recommendation would be to get to know someone and then prepare yourself for a little road trip and you’ll be set!
If you’re looking to avoid a general dating site, and you want something more specialized, then you should definitely consider ABF Singles. ABF Singles is the largest and most well-known lactation/suckling dating site on the internet and everyone who is anyone in the ABF world is a member.
Administrators know that their site is a little more controversial so they take the time to approve every new member, so you can be assured that nobody strange is getting through. My only peeve with ABF Singles is the site looks a little cheesy, almost porn-like, but that’s really just splitting hairs.
FetLife is the O.G. of kink dating sites and trust me, if you’re into it, whatever that “it” is, you’re going to find it there. This includes adult breastfeeding, where this is a pretty large group of people that are not only into it, but active, which is key when you’re trying to find a partner.
If you are looking for some online action only, you’re in luck with FetLife as well. They have members who love to share videos so if you’re the type into ABF for sexual purposes, you’ll be able to get off.
Dreams of Milk
If you’re the type of person that dreams of breastfeeding, Dreams of Milk will be a site you enjoy. This is a no-nonsense site, its members posting what they want and their contact information-there is no vulgarity allowed and the focus is more on health and how to get into the ABF world than a sexual aspect.
Dreams of Milk is a small, safe, and affordable alternative interest site, but do keep in mind there is no verification of its members, so some trolls can slip in, but for the most part everyone there seems to be on the up-and-up.
I would say that Lactating Dating is a fair entry into the ABF world. At times, the site seems more like a regular dating site, but that may just be because the ABF dating pool is relatively small. Joining is super easy and it looks like the makers of the site took the time to make it look nice too, which is a great bonus.
The reason I feel that Lactating Dating is just sort of fair is that I’m not sure that everyone is real. I mean, they even used a stolen photo to lure you in, so that kind of makes me say, “Hmmm…”. If you’re new to the world of ABF, maybe give it a try, but don’t linger, you’ll probably just end up frustrated.
ANR Connections is a very tight-knit community that is completely dedicated to ABF-ANR. To join, you’re going to have to answer A LOT of questions and wait for the site moderators to approve your membership, which can take a little bit of time. This is good because you can be assured that everyone who is on ANR Connections is serious.
If you’re approved to become a member of ANR Connections, you’re going to have access to chat, photo galleries, blogs, events, and forums, but don’t expect much to be flashy. This is a site that could be considered “bland” by some, but if you’re not too big on sites that are over the top, you’ll be happy here.
AdultBreastFeeding.US is a site completely dedicated to ABF and nothing else. This group is open to members in the U.S., Canada, the U.K., and Australia, so if you’re traveling and looking to find someone to share some milk with, you’re set. They also have a pretty nice membership base, so your chances of finding someone to spend some time with is pretty high.
Gift of Milk
If you’ve been around the ABF world, you might remember the very popular ABF site, Land of Milk and Honey. That site has since merged with Gift of Milk and now has become a sort of super site that has a more motherly, positive vibes feel than a kink feel.
You will need to be approved to join and the forums don’t seem to be super busy, but there are good articles on the subject and a nice group of users looking to help those interested in ABF get started.
ANRelationships wants to help you find that special someone that is into the same things you are. Just like most other dating sites, you sign up, give some basic information, and the algorithm of the site plays matchmaker to find you a date.
ANRelationships is super easy to use. Just be careful when you’re on there. Something about the site says it’s a little shady, but I had no issue while on there. I would just recommend using a burner email here. Don’t use your social media to sign up, and if anything feels off, maybe try one of the other sites out.
I keep coming back to this because it’s an absolute beast regardless of what you’re into. FLING.com is money the absolute best of them all. It can provide you with all the adult breastfeeding that you’re thirsty heart desires. Please, don’t take my word for it, just give it a shot and see what happens. Chances are that you’re going to absolutely love it.
People are into adult breastfeeding for a variety of reasons. From health purposes to sexual kinks, whatever reason you want to suckle a woman, you’ll find a dating site that matches your needs. Take action, give one a try, and get to the tit sucking fun! Oh, and before I go, I should mention that many of these networks list people who offer the occasional adult breastfeeding service. Give ’em a ring if that’s your thing!
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4 thoughts on “Adult Breastfeeding Dating Sites (ABF / ANR)”
I am/have been a member of most of the sites you have listed so here is my take on them.
Adult Friend Finder: good for meeting anyyone anything else but for ANR/ABF no so much, has a immense amount members. but the ANR/ABF scene not so much. but it has a lot of features, options and add ons.
ABFSingles and ANR Connections, both are owned by the same entity, so basically the same just different layouts and chats rooms, agree with what you had to say about both sites, but don’t agree with the ABFsingles site looking like a “looks a little cheesy, almost porn-like” it really just vanilla looking not porn like at all, both good sites.
FetLife: this site covers everything under the sun, a lot of ABF/ANR groups, but you can’t search profiles to find someone specifically for that, the site doesn’t have the search capabilities as a dedicating dating site, so it’s sort of hit or miss finding someone in your area.
Lactation Dating: Agree with your assessment.
Dreams of Milk: Agree with your assessment.
ABF US: Agree with your assessment, but not a lot of US members, most are in the UK.
Gift of Milk: Agree with your assessment.
ANRelationships: Didn’t have any issues, lot of members, very easy to use, didn’t see anything shady, or a need for a burner phone or not using your social media account to sign up, really that makes it super convenient. also it’s a ANR/ABF and breast admiration/worship site, so maybe that may have caused some confusion with the pictures, ( loving couples and busty women, no milk spraying boobs or boob sucking)
Fling: Same as AFF as far as my thoughts, very good for meeting everyone for anything else but for ANR/ABF for me not so much, has a immense amount members and other features, mostly cam and viewing videos. but the ANR/ABF…. YMMV
It has been my experience that many women are not into ANR/ABF. Most women who did not like nursing their children don’t want to go through the experience again. And those that do are far and few between. I used to use CraigsList back in the day, and had more success than I have using any of these sites.
And I echo what Connie said, but from the Male perspective. Especially those who are in smaller towns and cities. Trying to find a woman in that small town/city environment is really like looking for a needle in a haystack. And to find one that not only wants the ANR but the “R” as well, makes it even worse. I do wish there were a better way.
Where do you live and what is “R”
I am a women that is looking to pump via video and sell bags of breastmilk. I am happily married just looking to make some extra $$. I loved breastfeeding my children. Also willing to take requests. And would like to know what sites are best for what i am wanting.