I love older women. Well, actually, I love all women, every age, shape, and size (yes even BBW occasionally), but lately I’ve kind of been into spending some time with ladies of a particular age. Particularly, over 40 – you know…the mature type.
I don’t know why I love them so much. Maybe it’s the level of sophistication? It might be their sexual experience and fearlessness in the bedroom. Or, it might be that they aren’t looking for anything serious.
Or, hell, it might just be that I have a cougar and milf fantasy.
I really don’t know. But, what I do know is I enjoy spending time with them and when my collection is running sparse of fine women, I need to replenish, usually by using dating apps.
Dating apps and websites allow you to find partners who are looking for something casual and aren’t looking to keep things going unless you both want to.
The problem is, there are so many bad apps and sites out there, how do you know if the one you’re considering joining is going to work? That was what I wondered when I joined Over40Only.com, a dating site for, you guessed it, those over 40. The good thing is, they welcome lovers of dating older people as well.
I thought, “This is awesome!” And then I started digging into the site and well, awesome it wasn’t. If you’re considering joining Over 40 Only, keep reading to find out if you should give it a try, or avoid it like the plague.
Reasons Why Over40Only.com Blows (And Not You)
I’m really the king of dating apps, I love using them to keep my mojo going. So, I’ve really seen the good, the bad, and the downright ugly of what a dating site can do to trick people into becoming a paid member. Unfortunately, Over40Only.com uses the same tricks that the shadiest networks on the internet continue to use.
If you’re wondering what tricks Over40Only uses, keep reading to find out.
Fake profiles are all over the place.
One of the biggest issues with shady dating sites is their use of fake profiles. Often they will call them “Online Cupids,” “Love Stars,” or some other ridiculous thing that is code for “Fake.” And, all of this is listed in the terms of service of the site.
Have you ever read the terms of service of the dating sites you’ve joined?
I know you have never read one word of those terms and you have no idea that as long as the dating site states that they use these fake profiles, they can’t be sued, and they don’t have to give you your money back. Just becoming a member automatically accepts those terms whether you’ve read them or not.
Fake profiles are on Over40Only.com, and other dating sites, to do a few things. First, they make you think the site is active, fun, and full of hotties. Then, these fake profiles will often contact you the minute you join to try and make you think these hotties want to talk to you.
The problem is, all they’re going to do is talk, whether it be emails you can’t open until you’ve upgraded your membership, or once you have been foolish enough to upgrade, they keep leading you on, so you’ll keep buying another membership. Never will they meet you and never will they have sex with you.
They can’t! They aren’t real. They are either a bot or a paid employee just stringing you on. I’ll tell you, it can be infuriating, especially when you’ve wasted time and money.
Truthfully, I don’t know if there is one legit woman on Over 40 Only. How do I know? Keep reading.
All of the fake profiles I ran across on Over40Only.com contained fake pictures, all stolen from other places on the internet. How do I know that? Reverse image search, baby.
If you join any dating site and someone hot is talking to you and you just don’t trust that they’re who they say they are, reverse image search it to find out if the picture appears anywhere else on the internet.
Yes, there are fake messages too.
This is another huge red flag when you join a dating site. If you join and haven’t even created a profile yet, but you’re getting messages from women, those messages are fakes.
I mean, would you contact someone that has no information about themselves listed? Well, you’re a go, so…
But seriously, if you were a woman would you contact a strange man that you knew zilch about? Don’t use your man brain to answer that. The answer to that question is an absolute ‘NO’.
No real woman, ever, will do that and if you get a message that quickly, you can be assured it’s an automated message to get you excited about being on Over40Only.com.
If all of this doesn’t sound like it’s too bothersome, then you can always give Over40Only.com a try. Remember, though, it will cost you. What does it cost to become a member of Over40Only.com?
Pricing for Over40Only.com
Joining Over40Only.com is completely free. However, joining and actually getting to do anything on the site is two completely different things. If you want to use anything the site provides, you’ll have to upgrade your membership to a paid one.
The pricing for Over40Only.com is as follows:
- 3-day trial: $0.65 a day
- VIP membership: $29.95 a month
- Silver membership: $16.65 per month for three months
- Gold membership: $11.65 per month for six months
Sorry, but that’s a heck of a lot of money to not talk to real women and get any results.
Final Thoughts on Over40Only.com
I know it can get exciting to join a dating site and get messages and see all the hot women, believe me, I get it. But, don’t let that excitement get the better of you and make you do something you wouldn’t normally do, like spend your hard-earned money on garbage.
Over40Only.com is not worth your time or your money simply because I don’t believe there is a legit woman on the site at all. You will have better chances of going to the grocery store and suggestively hitting on a cougar in the produce department with a banana.
Honestly, if you’re looking to find an older woman, don’t waste your time with Over40Only.com.