Some people enjoy having regular, vanilla relationships, some like kink, some like open relationships, and some enjoy having the type of relationship where both parties benefit in some manner.
Not sure what I mean?
Let’s just lay it all out there. Some people enjoy having a Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby relationship where one person, usually the guy, pays for certain “benefits,” such as a “Girlfriend Experience,” regular sex, or something in between. While I say that ‘usually the guy’ is the paying party, there are women who keep men, men who keep other men, and women that keep other women as their “baby.”
This isn’t a relationship for everyone, and it is still pretty taboo in the dating world, but there are enough people out there that enjoy this type of arrangement that many sugar dating sites have been created that cater to those that love a sugar relationship.
One of the sites that I have come across recently is a site called SecretBenefits.com, claiming it is “like regular dating, only better.” But, does it really deliver on that promise? Keep reading to find out if I think this site is worth your time and money.
Secret Benefits = A Real Sugar Dating Site
Secret Benefits doesn’t hide the fact that it is a sugar dating site. Nothing is veiled, nothing is discussed in hushed terms of secret codes, and nothing is looked down upon while on SecretBenefits.com. They know what they are, and they make no bones about it.
The site is also not for just casually chit-chatting, short-term sexual encounters, or casual dating. Secret Benefits is absolutely about connecting two people who are interested in a pay-for-sex, mutually beneficial relationship.
Signing Up for SecretBenefits.com
Signing up for SecretBenefits.com is super simple and completely free for those that consider themselves “sugar babies.” Sugar Daddies are required to pay for a membership, but if you’re going to be paying for your relationship, the nominal fees of SecretBenefts.com shouldn’t be too much of a stretch for you.
When you’re ready to give Secret Benefits a try, you’ll only need to provide an email address and some other basic information including:
- Body type
- Hair color
Once you’ve entered your specs, you’ll then be prompted for a photo. Try to choose something that portrays the real you, don’t do the filters and all that jazz that makes you look better than you really do. People value honesty.
When you get to the profile section, you’ll be able to describe yourself more fully, including your education, if you drink/smoke, what type of relationship you may currently be involved in, and descriptions of any tattoos and piercings you may have. It is up to you how much information you provide, but the more open you are, the better your chances for successfully matching up with someone.
Secret Benefits doesn’t require pictures to be uploaded to your profile, but you must provide at least one for photo verification. This helps to assure others that you are who you are saying you are and builds up trust that you’re not a catfisher or scammer looking to waste another member’s time.
The verification process is simple. All you need to do is upload a picture of yourself holding a piece of paper where you have written your username, the word ‘secret’, and the date. This picture should be of your face, be clear, and have the same outfit as another picture in your profile. Again, this is just an easy and excellent way to ensure that everyone that is using SecretBenefits.com is on the up-and-up.
Excellent Search Feature
The best way to meet anyone on a dating site is by using their search feature. Some dating sites search features aren’t that great, not allowing you to really narrow down what it is that you’re looking for. This site isn’t like that, instead, letting you fine-tune your parameters so that you not only find good matches, but you find the exact specifications you want.
The features you can search for on SecretBenefits.com include:
- Body type
- Hair color
The search results you will receive will show you the most active sugar babies on the site which you can then arrange by distance or sugar baby sign-up date.
I really wanted to see if Secret Benefits would provide the results they promise, and I will say I was pleasantly surprised. I sent out 10 messages to 10 different Sugar Babies and waited. Within 24 hours I had responses from four of these women and within 48 hours I had heard back from another four, totaling eight. This was the fastest response rate of any legit dating site I’ve joined.
Of course, just because I got eight responses doesn’t mean I would consider all eight Sugar Babies worthy of my time. I would say that I had a decent connection with five of them, and the dinner and drinks that I arranged showed that four of those matches were excellent. For an alternative dating site, those odds are amazing.
If all I have discovered while using this sugar daddy site intrigues you, you’re probably wondering what it costs for Sugar Daddies to use the site. SecretBenefits.com uses a credit-based system, allowing you to purchase credits for the messages you send out.
The current pricing for credits on SecretBenefits.com is as follows:
- 100 credits-$59.00
- 500 credits-$169.00
- 1000 credits-$289.00
If you have any questions regarding credits or just using SB.com, you should know that their customer service is top-notch. Most reviews of the site on other platforms are positive and if there were any complaints, customer service responded and made things better. It isn’t often that you find that on a dating site.
Final Verdict on Secret Benefits
If you are the type of person that enjoys spending time with a Sugar Baby, or you’re a Sugar Baby looking to find a Daddy, you should give Secret Benefits a try. It isn’t often that you can find a site that is affordable, easy to use, and has great customer service, which it has. If I were planning on a full Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby relationship, this would be my first choice in finding a Baby to be mine.
I mean, not gonna lie, I love Fling.com and use it for this reason as well, but this site most definitely delivers just as much if not better. I’ve been using that more so than anything and truly hope you at least take action one way or another.